Welcome to Our Village

A Community of Love, Connection, Healing and Growth

Our Story: From Arena to Our Village

Our Village was born from a beautiful dream and a vision of pure love, healing, and unwavering support. In 2015, Nussy Munk zt”l and Sony Perlman, LMSW founded Arena Sober Living, which quickly became a beacon of hope for those desperately seeking an uplifting and caring sober community.

Following Nussy’s untimely passing, Arena was forced to close its doors in 2017. However, the glaring need for a recovery-focused, attachment-based community was as critical as ever, and lives were literally on the line. 

So, in 2019, Sony – a seasoned, well-respected expert in the field, and the clinical director of Our Place drop-in center in Brooklyn – approached the Our Place organization with a wonderful idea: to reopen the sober living home under their umbrella. This conversation ultimately planted the seeds that blossomed into Our Village — our thriving, dedicated, and loving community for individuals on their journey of recovery.

Our Philosophy: Lasting Change Through Love and Community

At Our Village, we recognize that addiction is often rooted in a deep sense of unworthiness — the self-delusion that one is somehow undeserving or naturally lacking in value. Therefore, our approach is straight-forward and simple, yet dramatically transformative: we envelope each individual in a tremendous amount of love, truly nurturing them until their inherent worth begins to surface.

Key Outcomes & Observable Results:

  • Restored Self-Worth – A deeply compassionate environment where individuals learn to recognize their value and feel loved.
  • Natural Growth & Healing – By filling the void in their lives with love and support, we empower individuals to step up and embrace their innate strengths and abilities.
  • Enduring Community – Lifelong bonds are created and nurtured, providing lasting love, companionship, and support, while ensuring that no one continues their journey alone.
  • Boundless Opportunity – Through immense love and care, as well as an unshakable belief in each individual’s potential, Our Village has created a magnificent space where true healing occurs — where individuals not only recover but rediscover themselves, their limitless potential, and their rightful place in a caring, loving, and supportive community.

Our Method: Transforming Recovery with Love

At Our Village, we recognize that true recovery isn’t achieved through tough love, rigid structuring, or trying to force change. The issue is not that people aren’t being pushed enough, but that they aren’t being seen, appreciated, and loved enough. However, when they can tap into the caring and deeply embracing support system that has become a defining trademark of Our Village, they naturally grow into their own strengths.

We are thoroughly committed to:

  • Demonstrating, through our continued success, that love is the most potent force and greatest catalyst for positive transformation.
  • Proving that when people feel truly valued, their wisdom, capabilities, and maximum potential will inevitably emerge.
  • Creating a model and blueprint for healing that others can replicate, ultimately leading to the development of countless love-based recovery communities.
  • Genuinely inspiring a monumental shift in the very approach and outlook towards addiction recovery and healing — one person and one community at a time.

Our Mission: Empowering Transformation

We believe in the transformative power of community. Our mission is to:

  • Offer a foundation of love, acceptance, and support.
  • Empower our members to achieve lasting recovery.
  • Create brighter futures for individuals overcoming addiction.

Our Mission: Empowering Transformation

We believe in the transformative power of community. Our mission is to:

  • Offer a foundation of love, acceptance, and support.
  • Empower our members to achieve lasting recovery.
  • Create brighter futures for individuals overcoming addiction.

The Future: Expanding Our Vision

We’re on a mission to create a specialized attachment-based sober living model for women. With proven success in our existing model, we aim to:

  • Empower women to overcome addiction.
  • Help them rebuild their lives with resilience and strength.
  • Expand our model to ensure lasting recovery and transformation.

Our Success: Transforming Lives with Attachment-Based Recovery

At Our Village, our attachment-based sober living model has achieved remarkable success in helping individuals overcome addiction and maintain long-term recovery.

Key Highlights:

  • Improved Well-Being: Residents experience better emotional and physical health.
  • Sustained Recovery: Our approach addresses core emotional and psychological needs, promoting lasting sobriety.
  • Supportive Connections: A caring, secure community fosters positive, enduring relationships.

Through scientifically validated methods, we empower individuals to rebuild their lives and thrive, showcasing the transformative power of attachment theory and community support.

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